Book Review: Clean

Not long ago I read “The Final Freedom” by Dr. Doug Weiss. It contains a significant overview of all of the different factors which can be involved in sexual addiction. So Dr. Weiss seems to be quite knowledgeable. Unfortunately, “Clean” feels almost as if it were written by a different person. I was admittedly disappointed.

First of all, I got the sense that the book wasn’t written from a position of humility. I want to be cautious in saying this; it is a bit subtle and I could be mistaken. However he seems to talk a little bit too much about himself and his own accomplishments. Second, and one of the most bothering of the criticisms I have, is that Dr. Weiss promotes some significantly bad theology. For example, he compares America to Continue reading →

Greg Boyd on the Bible

This is so good that I wanted to share it:

The earliest disciples didn’t believe in Jesus because their Scripture (the OT) proved to them that he was the Son of God. They were rather convinced by Jesus’ claims, his unique life of love, his distinctive authority, his unprecedented miracles, his self-sacrificial death, and especially his resurrection. Once they believed in Jesus, they then looked for him and found him in their scripture. But they never would have been convinced that Jesus was Lord had they started with scripture alone.

Unfortunately, most conservative evangelicals today are taught to do the exact opposite. They base their faith in Jesus’ Lordship (as well as everything else) on their belief that the Bible is the Continue reading →

Major Announcement: Website Relaunch!

I’m very excited to announce my new website! (Or depending upon how you look at it, the redesign of my old website.) I wrote my previous website, including the CMS, from scratch seven years ago. Since then, a lot has happened on the web. There have been a number of features I wanted to add or approve upon even for 2-3 years. But I had not gotten around to making them a reality until now. Some of the new, improved features include:

  • A new, dedicated domain name!
  • Nice URLs!
  • Social sharing widgets!
  • Disqus comment system!
  • Improved, responsive design! (This means it looks good on phones, tablets, and laptops/desktops!)
  • Blog feed email subscription!
  • And more!

All of the content from my previous site is still here; I have over 350 articles published. Browse through the Continue reading →

The Gospel is Jesus

The Gospel is a topic I’ve addressed on a couple of occasions. But it is important enough to revisit. I have some new insights since I last wrote about it. Many of us are aware that “gospel” means good news. This is true, but there is more to it that just this. One specific and important use of the term “gospel” was to announce a new emperor of the Roman Empire. Messengers were sent (apostles) to proclaim (preach) the gospel (good news) of a new emperor. This was to be good news because the emperor was good (or at least claimed himself to be). He was also called lord, savior and the one who establishes peace. Because the emperor was good, the empire would be good too.

Sound familiar? Jesus is called these things. And it isn’t a mistake. Continue reading →

Respect Women, But…

OK, so I don’t think there should be any exceptions to respecting women, it’s just challenging to come up with a good title. I read “Seeing a Woman: A conversation between a father and son”, a blog post which has been circulating on the web recently. The basic thrust is “don’t objectify women”. I fully agree with that. In fact, that’s the same conclusion I came to. But I’ve had a realization of something else recently, something which causes me to want to add another angle to this discussion.

I grew up in a conservative evangelical culture. I was taught to respect women. I was taught how to treat women. Err… actually I was taught more about how not to treat women. I was taught to be good, and that being good essentially meant not Continue reading →

Miley Cyrus

Do the VMAs reflect worse on Miley or on us? I don’t follow celebrities but with the popularity of Hannah Montana, I’m guessing people wanted Miley to stay a cute little girl forever. So is what she did at least partially about forcing people to recognize her as an adult? (Because after her performance, people will find it difficult to think of her as a cute little girl any more.)

Book Giveaway!

Today I am pleased to have the opportunity to giveaway a copy of a new book to one of you, my readers. “Open” is a new book by Craig Gross. I gave a positive review to one of his previous books, “Pure Eyes”. He is probably best known as the founder of XXXchurch.com.

“Open”, which releases next Tuesday, sounds like an interesting book to me. From the publisher:

Get inspired and energized with this new, life-changing book, Open, by Craig Gross, available now wherever books and eBooks are sold.

Doesn’t it feel great when you find a book that really inspires you? Something that really gets you motivated to live and love better?

Author and speaker, Craig Gross, is helping men and women all over the country do just that. In his Continue reading →

Church vs. Scouts – East 91st St. Christian to Cut Ties

(Note: I attempt to be respectful here and recognize the point of view of those whom I disagree with. I would like for this to be constructive criticism, not malicious criticism. However I don’t know how I would say what I said in a nicer way so I don’t know if I succeeded.)

Yesterday afternoon it hit the local news that East 91st St. Christian Church, one of the largest churches in the Indianapolis area, plans to cut ties with the Boy Scout troops which it has hosted. E91 (as it’s sometimes abbreviated) is the congregation with which I am most associated.

When I heard this news via a friend, the first thing I did was to check sources in order to try and get the facts for my self. I found the story on the Indy Star’s website immediately, as it was the top featured story Continue reading →

My Blog Featured on Modesty Misunderstood

I am pleased to announce that my recent post on modesty is one of a dozen being featured on the website Modesty Misunderstood. It encourages me and makes me think that my writing may be doing some good in the world.

I spent a lot of time working on that post about “modesty”. In certain ways, it was a newer topic to me. I read many other blogs related to this subject, more than I referenced in my post. I also had to spend some time really examining myself, how I felt, and my responses to certain things. I wanted to be and tried to be as honest as possible about what I feel when seeing certain women in certain clothing. I’m not sure I got it completely right, but I believe I’m headed in the right direction. I feel that we as a Christian Continue reading →

How the Church is Failing Men

A couple of paragraphs from this article jumped out at me. I think the author really nails a major problem in how the church engages men. (I think the author may have done this without fully realizing it’s importance or full depth.)

Here’s what I’ve observed: a lot of men avoid men’s ministry because they are feeling less than okay with their personal lives. Many are embarrassed by the secrets they keep… Many tell me, “I’ll come to church once I get my act together.” They feel that if their lives aren’t perfect they should avoid church.

Our culture has drilled into us that we men have to have our act together. If we don’t, we’re not worthy of anyone’s love. Rather, we only deserve to be the brunt of jokes and ridicule. Continue reading →